After spending 2 nights in the kennels whilst the tree fellers were sorting the trees out, Juzzie spending some quality time with me - in the last few months we have both noticed that he has suddenly become an old little man
I know it’s been almost 10 weeks since I last posted a blog or have done a general update on my site but for the first 5 weeks or so that was totally out of my control - as we waited for Telkom to set up our telephone line and ADSL. The next 5 weeks was totally my fault because as soon as they had connected us - I ripped out the line… but wait, before you shout at me and ask why did I do that - let me explain myself.
The lady whom we bought the house from (and her late husband) had, in all their wisdom, decided that almost every room - including the garage downstairs and our outbuilding at the top of the property needed to have a telephone connection. Don’t ask me why, perhaps it was because her husband was suffering from Alzheimer’s and they felt the need to have a phone in every room - in case he forgot where he was? Not sure that would have helped though but still…
So in my haste to clear the excess cords - and going against Chris’ wish to let him help me (I thought, I can do this…) well I was wrong - by the time I had cut all the cords, boom - no telephone connection, so some more money and another Telkom call out and another few weeks later and tah-dah, we’re up and running. Moral of the story? If you have someone like Chris in your life, accept their offered help and never forget, ‘haste makes waste’!
Truth be told though, I haven’t really been forthcoming with anything I felt needed to be said on my blog - the huge gap in waiting for our ADSL didn’t help much but I have felt the last few months have been taxing on my mental well-being. We had just unpacked our rental in Gordon Road, then packed it up again. I was so sick towards the end of the last year and then we moved into a smaller than what we’re accustomed to home - so figuring out what to keep, donate and store has been an ongoing process - I in fact made our first donation to the SPCA yesterday.
I also had visions of painting every room and unpacking as we go but I am slowly starting to realise that it can’t all be done in one go (nor on your own) and that these things will take time - patience, a virtue I am trying to adopt - the tree fellers have just finished removing 3 1/2 trees, one of which put the one side of our house in complete darkness for most of the day, and clearing the gutters - it’s such a pleasure not having to switch a light on to see whats going on inside the house during the middle of the day. I wasn’t too happy about removing trees but it had to be done, next on the agenda is to start my veggie patch where the massive Mango Tree had been. Trees removed, tick box.
Our former kitchen that will eventually become our scullery, laundry and pantry is almost all stripped out - just need a plumber to come in and connect our new sink and sort connections out for our washing machine and dishwasher - so we are getting there. Slowly but methodically.
Do I mind that the house is half painted, some boxes are still packed and that most of our art is still bubble wrapped and scattered around - I did at first but now I don’t mind so much. It’s slowly starting to feel like home. Durban is starting to feel like home again too. Chris has been hard at work with the business and I’d prefer that that is where most of our energy needs to be focused on or else there’d be no home! Some days are better than others but we are finding our rhythm and going for it.
In the ensuing Telkom limbo, I started yoga again - which is helping both body and soul. I am certainly feeling more calm and relaxed, sometimes sore too!
We also treated both sets of folks to a new Weber over the Easter Weekend - yes, that meant two consecutive braai’s on as many days but we didn’t mind as the weather was perfect in both Pietermaritzburg and Durban - plus it felt nice treating four special people in our lives.
So in a flurry of creativity, I posted a few blogs, some recipes, media and vintage finds - I know to be a blogger one has to constantly be posting but sometimes things happen that are out of your control and if your internet connection is down at home, it’s ok (I know I could’ve gone to a cafe or such and used the free wifi on offer - but the thought of sitting there with my laptop and sipping coffee whilst surfing the web has just never appealed to me).
So some weeks and months you may hear from me more so than others - I need to realise there is no pressure to put something out for you to read - but persevere I shall or else I will slip into my reclusive little comfort zone (which is always beckoning me with open arms).
I am off to the beachfront later to treat myself to a walk along the promenade - from Ushaka to Blue Lagoon and back - a nice 11km or so and then to meet up with my dearest Nush for drinks this afternoon.
Until next time,